Do you know why most relationships are based on sex? Is because sex is the only Relationship goal that they have?
Before you travel that long distance to meet your boo or bae pls what exactly is on your mind?? When you think of your relationship what comes into your mind? Most relationships are just based on going out to eat shawarma and ice cream then end up on the bed of fornication?
I bet you if you both are committed into a particular course of life, or passionate about something or working together to achieve a particular dream together sex will be very far from you.
Be sincere with yourself what are the activities that has taken place in your relationship for the past three months? What exactly can you say you have both achieved so far in that relationship? When last did you guys declare a fast and pray for the future you both are wishing for…abi you think it will come to pass by just mare wishing?? You must be joking!!!
How many times have you bought books on marriage and read them and apply the things you read in your relationship life, when last did you guys go out to preach the gospel or impact lives, even on your social media platforms!! What is heaven even benefiting from this your relationship???????????
The purpose of marriage is to bring two people together to form a formidable force that can create impact in the kingdom of God…that’s the first purpose of marriage in the mind of God. If you can’t do it in a relationship it will be more impossible to do it in marriage.